When 'Step-Family' and mis-step's of Family rears it's ugly head in your wedding planning!

 

I am sure this story many of you have.  Unfortunately 'bridezilla's not only surfaces out of stress of detail, but can also surface out of family issues.  My story is somewhat of a half a familiar tale.  Dad meet's woman with two kids.  Before his only daughter returns from a graduation trip her kids are moved into her room and office as their own bedroom.  Dad picks fight with real daughter.  Real daughter flees to Arizona with a aunt and attends college.  Real daughter even though has done nothing wrong comes back and kisses the father's ass as the new wife looks on puffing on her cigarette pissed as hell they have reconciled.  Dumb ass real daughter thinks all if fine throughout the course of the next 20 or so years.  Real daughter meets man she will marry who has a daughter and then realizes what a sneaky low down lying woman her Father's wife has been all these years..  Step sister decides to pick fight with real daughter over something out of the blue that the real daughter still has no idea where stemmed from. 

 

Real daughter is now engaged and gives these two females a closed case pass to attend a congratulatory dinner in which they both declined and made fools of themselves.  Not only that they no showed with lies of work and kids events to having a tooth pulled...and obviously how much respect they have for the real daughters father..  The man they call Husband and Dad now. 

 

Real daughter is over it and gives a second pass sending them invitations in to which whatever is being fed to the real father, is making his life hell.  They supposedly want me to sit down and kiss their asses because per the message, "They are willing to sit down and forgive you!"

 

FOR WHAT!  And since the Father is now older and obviously losing his memory big time of all the evil things these women said behind his real daughter's back; the real daughter has had to put her foot down.  Thank goodness for surrogate family in times like this like your venue owners, close friends, family who have your back!  Not in a rabble rousing sense but to say, 'We don't like the way you have treated your daughter and let her be treated over the years!  We will not be there to see you and your royal family but to see our beloved friend, niece, cousin and her lifelong love!  Shape up evil family members. IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.. IT'S ABOUT THE WEDDING COUPLE SO DON'T MAKE A FOOL OF YOURSELF!  As even I am hiring security and will have your ass escorted out!